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17.05.2019 (34 days ago)
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Death of a loved one
by ghostrider ·
17-May-2019, 8:07 am

Does not matter whom you are..

we all go thru it..as much as we hate to.and we know growing up.our time is never known.

so so many we hear thru life that touch us in one way or another

all i have to say is.cherrish those whom has been in a part of your life one way or another..

god has called another home this morn..one my fave aunts.

so..that being said as a reminder..more love/less hate..

make each day a memorable day..

my aunt sandy

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  •  sfmystery: 
     

    Ghost, Try to focus on her life and the good times you experienced with her.; the happy times. I've found it the best way to mourn.

     
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    •  ghostrider: 
       

      amen bud..gott to keep an open mind and heart...and memories ...

       
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  •  Greystarfish1: 
     

    Big Hug     Harry, I am so sorry, for your loss. May God comfort you and your family.

     
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    •  ghostrider: 
       

      thank you..

       
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  •  ghostrider: 
     

    Screenshot_2019-05-17-18-01-41.png..was very stoked lil while ago..reading this....i gathered she was feeling sad..with her kids having a busy life of their own..and not seeing her kids often enough...and mom n her was extremely close..since mom passed..weekly she been missing her these past many yrs...only thing my sis and i could think of..she wanted to be with those whom loved her..well..depression can be bad..n ways to over come..but i dont know..mb there something else..for the moment..its all we know..i pray for the kids..because if they actually learn this..that can trigger things...man..lifes to much to enjoy..know we not asked to be here...but what ever life hands us..certain things..is not the propper resolve..i was so looking for a reunion this yr.. Kinda glad in a way i get to go support a band not seen..yet i partaked in many a times..so..an outing is needed..i had a lot of fresh air.n many fish to keep me busy.yet try to understand reasoning why folks not only effect their own life..but your kids..bout all i can think of..and thanx steve..much appreciate that brutha..and agree

     
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    •  SecretCorners: 
       

      My aunt gave up; she had lost all her children; all her brothers and sisters gone.  She just gave up, stopped eating and just wasted away.  It was hard to watch.  I visited her as much as I could but it wasn't enough.  Sister and I even cooked meals and took them to her so she could have real food.  However, at some point she just gave up and didn't want to be in this world any longer.

       
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      •  ghostrider: 
         

        sorry to hear about that..i have heard a story of such already...had a neighbor..when he was sick...n his son would not come see him or call.he tried that twice and got very sick from starving himself..he developed lot more issues and could hardly move..much like lots folks..we never understand ones strange motives..

         
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    •  SecretCorners: 
       

      Damn.  Yes, depression is bad; can really build up.  This will probably hit the kids; hope they don't blame themselves.  Big Hugs; Big Hug

       
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      •  ghostrider: 
         

        yeah..hope my cousins dont take it to bad..Reason i said mb they will not know..hard to tell.you know..sometimes folks cover up..as not to try to put others in a risk situation.....and then also..to mb not have others think..oh she family..but loved so n so more..and you know..pl play on that way to much in todays world..not saying this is probable this situation..but hey..some things i guess if left out..is best...what ever the full full reason..we would not know..unless there was notes..or lots things been siad..but what can you do..cant change ppl no matter how they view things..

        but for such a so down to earth.laid back soft spoken individual..youget lost for words when such thigs happen..but.hey..I realize ya cant change whats done..but remember only the best days..and leave it at that..

         
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  •  beatleguy: 
     

    That Sorrowful bell tolls for all of us Ghostie

    So Sorry to hear about your Aunt Sandy. You're not left Comfortless, all those Cherished memories have been left by her to be re-lived time & again whenever you wish.

    She's not gone, merely moved up a level & is waiting for that Joyful Reunion one day!

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  •  ghostrider: 
     

    thanx everyone...Big Hug

     
     34 days ago·1 replies1 replies 
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    •  ghostrider: 
       

      she was a very very nice person..was well fit and sis said.no clues so far why she passed....moms side of the family was exceptionally large...am left now with 3 aunts..and 2 uncles ...I encouraged many yrs for gatherings at the main home town of mount joy..and its been few yrs..shur pray things change..because at 54..I forsee life has to have some few more good gatherings ...because you cant stop time..or rewind other than a memory..and it should not be that away..in my perspective..

       
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  •  DebbieJo: 
     

    So sad to read of this loss in your life.  She looks so sweet and I bet she had some warm loving hugs.  Sorry buddy and yes, you are so right.  Cherish each and every day and love, pay forward, smile, life is short and a life of hate and bitterness is a sad road to choose to travel.  bighug.png

     
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  •  VeroMariquita: 
     

    She looks like a really sweet person. So sorry you lost her.

     
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  •  viccles2004: 
     

    Wonderful pics of your aunt. I am sorry to hear of your loss.

     
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  •  SecretCorners: 
     

    I am sorry to hear about the lost of your Aunt Sandy.  Big Hugs Big Hug

     
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  •  legacycowgirl: 
     

    Sorry for your loss Jim. Hold those memories close. {#}

     
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